Befriend the former is evidence maturity. This 6 Reasons To Maintain Positive Relationships With Ex

His name is also a relationship. If you've broken up, yes already - breaking wrote. If you're still friends, right instead of breaking up the name?

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Sure, friends with the former not an easy job. Not much more easy to make contact with his ex-contac know enough forever and reportedly stalking through online only. And if you want to think more clearly, establish good relations with the former there are many positive side. The positive side is making an effort we should spend to be friends with ex so very worth it.

Say friends with the former was not possible is a group of youth who are the losers. There are many things that you can reap if you are mature enough for baper not there. Need convincing? Fine, this 7 further explanation why you do not need prestige make friends with the former.


1. Once the matter, it is impossible to stop altogether. Instead of denial, is not it better your concern directed to build friendships?

Once got the feeling cared about someone, there's no way the feeling was obliterated. However, the person had ever become so meaningful for you. The man was also instrumental fashioned so personal as it is today. In people who've seberjasa it in your life, how do you stop caring?

Note: care at the former does not mean secretly hoping feedback. "Care" means very simple: you want a clean life of havoc. You want him not giving up on the exam that could arrive at any time. And if asked, you are willing to help as much as possible so that he was always fine.

I do not know what the hell do you think about this point. But let's face it: is not this sound like a recipe be a good friend?
 

2. Former understand you inside and out. He knew the sides were not even once you are putting in front of friends. Are you sure you would like this person "dumped"?

How much experience ups and downs that you had with him? Not matter how the end, you nonetheless had a relationship that is very close to him. He is the person most knowledgeable outer-side in you. Things are not you putting out to other people, for he is not a secret.

Because understand you from all sides, he is the best candidate for questioning. Approximately opinion, not fit well if you take this job offer? According to him, you'll be able to adapt not ya when moving to this city? Without realizing it, after no longer so you've got a couple friends instantly.
 

3. You two still one world. If you should meet again before the "agreed to fine", how?

Want to break up or not, you two still exist in the world. Because of this, your chance to meet him again so open. So would not it be convenient if you build a relationship right?

Especially if you meet as a working relationship. Working world will not care about the "memories" that you ever had. Currently there is still awkwardness between you and him, do not be surprised when your performance impaired. Conversely, when you meet him as a close friend, then your work will run smoothly and your career may be helped by it.

One thing to remember is that he understand the way of life you want. It is quite possible that it was he who later connect you with job opportunities you aspire. Of course this does not happen haphazardly. This can happen with a note: you are good friends with him.
 

4. Friendship is well with the former is a sign of maturity. You two are not a child be a loser in front of feelings

It is not a day longer to undergo courtship cycle-breaking-hostile. The more mature, you will see a relationship is more than just that. Courtship-off and friendships showing maturity. Can be friends with, you prove that you are not a slave weak in front feeling.
 

5. It is time to make peace with yourself. Say you want to be better?

Learning is good friends with the girlfriend is a process of peace with myself. At this stage you learn to manage your feelings and seek a better future. Of course, in the beginning of breaking up, you will be very emotional. Not just nyesek, you also feel a lump of regret and anger.

As you are able to control the ego well, your heart became more airy. What had been seen not make sense (like making friends), so an interesting scenario when you have to move on and forget about all the disappointments. Already the time, man. Turn mistakes into gold!
 

6. You start a relationship with the good. Precisely not make sense to reject the "end" with the good.

There are a lot of hope that once you post with your ex. Although there are many discrepancies led to the termination of the relationship. But is not the intention either to a relationship that never existed? Precisely not make sense when now you betrayed.

Friends with the former is not an impossibility. All you need is maturity. At the end of the day, he remains the great individuals who've made you fall in love. This fact will not change, even though you do not have it anymore.

6 Hopefully these reasons can help you as a consideration for a relationship of friendship with the former. No need to rush. Enjoy prosesmu so that you can accept gracefully all the memories and disappointments along the former, then turn them into the spirit of friendship that will never end. Good luck!
 
 
 
 
 
 

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